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Time for a Wee Chat · Foyle Hospice
Foyle Hospice
Dying Matters Awareness Week 2026
A new conversation tool from Foyle Hospice

Time for a Wee Chat is here.

A small, free way to begin a conversation about death and dying with someone you love. In your own words. In your own time.

Start your wee chat Live now for Dying Matters Awareness Week 2026
Donall Henderson, Chief Executive of Foyle Hospice, and Sheila Duffy, Director of Income Generation and Communications, presenting Time for a Wee Chat.
Donall Henderson Chief Executive Sheila Duffy Director of Income Generation & Communications
A simple first step

What is Time for a Wee Chat?

A short online experience that helps people in our community open conversations about death, dying, grief and what matters most. It takes about five minutes. It is free. It is private. It is for everyone.

01

Five gentle questions

Choose who the conversation is for. Pick what you need most. Answer five short questions in plain language, with no right or wrong answers.

02

A starter, made for you

At the end, the tool offers a personalised conversation starter and three follow-up prompts you can use in your own words, in your own time.

03

Yours to take away

Copy your starter, save it, or download a printable companion guide from Foyle Hospice. Nothing about you is stored or shared.

A first look

Phone screen showing the welcome page of Time for a Wee Chat with the Foyle Hospice logo.
Phone screen showing the conversation flow of Time for a Wee Chat with a question and answer options.
Phone screen showing the personalised conversation starter at the end of Time for a Wee Chat.

Designed for the device most of us already have in our hand.

Why now

Conversations should not begin in a crisis.

Dying Matters Awareness Week, led by Hospice UK, runs from 4 to 10 May 2026. This year's theme is Let's talk about death and dying — encouraging families, friends, workplaces and communities to speak more openly about a subject that affects everyone, but is often difficult to begin.

Foyle Hospice is marking the week with Time for a Wee Chat, a tool created here in Derry~Londonderry for people across the North West and beyond. It is small. It is calm. It is the easiest possible first step.

From our Chief Executive

"Talking about death and dying should not begin only when a crisis has already arrived."

Dying Matters Awareness Week gives us an important national moment, through Hospice UK, to say something very simple but very necessary: talking about death and dying should not begin only when a crisis has already arrived.

At Foyle Hospice, we see every day how much comfort, clarity and peace can come when people have had the chance to talk about what matters to them. Those conversations can help families understand wishes, reduce uncertainty and support more compassionate care.

Time for a Wee Chat is not clinical advice, and it does not replace conversations with GPs, nurses, social workers, counsellors or care teams. What it does is help people find a starting point. For many people, that first sentence is the hardest part.

As a hospice, we must continue to champion digital tools where they can reduce barriers, widen access and help people engage with difficult subjects in a way that feels safe and manageable. Technology can be assistive, it can be inclusive, and it can help us reach people in their homes and communities. But it will never replace the human touch that sits at the heart of hospice care.

Our staff and volunteers remain the heart of Foyle Hospice. Whether someone is receiving care in our inpatient unit, attending day therapy, being supported at home, or accessing our free counselling and bereavement support, the foundation of that care is always human connection, dignity and compassion.

Donall Henderson
Chief Executive, Foyle Hospice
For absolute clarity

What it is, and what it is not.

It is

  • A free, private online tool, built by Foyle Hospice.
  • A small first step for hard conversations.
  • For people thinking about their own wishes, the wishes of someone they love, or what to do after a loss.
  • Designed with privacy and accessibility at the centre.

It is not

  • A clinical or medical service.
  • An AI chatbot. Every word is pre-written and reviewed.
  • A replacement for talking to a GP, nurse or care team.
  • A data collection exercise. Nothing personal is stored.
From our Director of Income and Communications

"In the North West, a wee chat is often how we open the door to something important."

One of the most important parts of our work is communicating with our community in ways that feel clear, compassionate and accessible. Conversations about death and dying can feel overwhelming, so we wanted to create something that feels familiar, gentle and easy to use.

Time for a Wee Chat is about helping people take that first step. It may be a person thinking about their own wishes, someone worried about a parent or partner, or someone recently bereaved who is sitting with difficult thoughts and emotions. The tool does not push people. It simply offers words, prompts and reassurance.

The name Time for a Wee Chat is not intended to make light of death, dying or grief. It is about giving people a small first step to start. These conversations can feel very big, and for many people the hardest part is knowing how to begin. In the North West, a wee chat is often how we open the door to something important. We wanted the tool to feel local, familiar and human, while treating the subject with the care and seriousness it deserves.

As communicators, we have a responsibility to use every appropriate channel available to us. That includes face-to-face conversations, printed materials, media, community engagement, social media and carefully designed digital tools. If a short online experience helps one person begin a conversation they have been putting off, then it has real value.

This is also about meeting people where they are. Some people will speak to a nurse, a counsellor, a friend or a family member. Others may first need a moment on their phone to gather their thoughts. Both are valid, and both can lead to more open, compassionate conversations.

Sheila Duffy
Director of Income and Communications, Foyle Hospice
About Foyle Hospice

More than a tool. A whole community of care.

Foyle Hospice provides specialist palliative care and support for people living with life-limiting illnesses across the North West, including:

Inpatient Unit Specialist round-the-clock care.
Day Therapy Therapeutic support and community.
Hospice at Home Specialist care in your own home.
Counselling & Bereavement Free support for patients and families.

Time for a Wee Chat is part of our wider commitment to opening conversations about end of life across Derry~Londonderry and the wider Western Trust area — long before anyone needs hospice services at all.

Live now

Open the door to a conversation that matters.

It takes about five minutes. It is free. It is private. It might just help.

Or share this page with someone you love, or someone you think it might help.

A final word.

If we can support our community to talk earlier, more openly and with more confidence, then we are strengthening the community around every patient and family we serve.

— Donall Henderson, Chief Executive

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